在人际关系上我们不能太浪漫主义。人是很有趣的，往往在接触一个人时首先看到的'都是他或她的优点。这一点颇像是在餐馆里用餐的经验。开始吃头盘或冷碟的时候，印象很好。吃头两个主菜时，也是赞不绝口，愈吃愈趋于冷静，吃完了这顿筵席，缺点就都找出来了。
参考翻译：
We should not be too romantic in the interperonal le are interesting in this they meet a person,what they are see at first is always the good points of his or hers,which is like dining in a will be not only favorably impressed with the first dish or cold dishes,but also profuse in praise of the first two main ver,the more you have,the more somber you become until the dinner ends up with all the flaws exposed.
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