《紅樓夢》讀後感
我總認為紅樓夢的偉大之處在於它體現了一種敗落的趨勢，不管是家族的，愛情的，仕途的，都是走向沒落，這在喜聚不喜散，愛好大團圓結尾的中國古典小說中並不多見。
我不得不感謝續者高鄂，儘管他在很多方面跟不上曹雪芹的思想，但他至少讓黛玉死了，管她登仙還是辭世，至少她別了寶玉，很好很好。
不是說我天生殘忍喜歡看別人的悲劇，但是，不是有句話說嗎?塞翁失馬，焉之非福?對於黛玉這樣一個脆弱的封建少女來說，死，是她的解脫，是她所有悲劇的終結，是她的幸福。當她在地下安靜的沉眠時，看著寶玉仍在凡世尋找出路，不得不說，她還是幸福的。
或許兩個人都是浪漫的人，浪漫的人天生就不該相遇，因為生活不是浪漫，生活會將浪漫消磨得一乾二淨，最終，紅玫瑰變成了牆上的蚊子血，白玫瑰成了胸口粘著的白米飯。所以，就讓浪漫在最美的時候畫上句號，在彼此的心中，留下幸福的回憶。
可是也許你會說，黛玉死的很悲慘，一點也不浪漫，關於這點，我是不贊成高鄂的續書的，也許曹雪芹的本意非此，也許黛玉確實應該淚盡證前緣，這樣不是更好嗎?她牽掛著寶玉，用她全部的熱情為這一知己痛哭，懷著深深的思念，這樣的死，何嘗不是高貴神聖的，然而高鄂沒有這樣寫，他最終讓黛玉很庸俗的指天憤恨，氣極而亡。這不象我們認識的那個高傲自賞的黛玉，反而象個情場失意的一般女子。
儘管如此，她最終是在賈府垮倒前離開這是非之地的，否則以她的脆弱，恐怕受不了那麼大的刺激。寶玉是個紈絝子弟，他不是一個頂天立地的男子漢，他能給予黛玉的其實很少，談不上保護與安慰，他自己尚且是需要別人保護的弱者，所以在他身邊，黛玉是得不到幸福的。
所以能帶著回憶離開他，是一種幸福。寶玉自己能給予黛玉的只是幾句好話，他連痴情都談不上，看看寶釵的下場，不得不說黛玉是幸福的，當然有人說寶釵需要的只是寶二奶奶的寶座，她並不在乎寶玉，是這樣嗎?難道有一個天生喜歡孤獨的女子嗎，不管怎麼說，寂寞的獨守空房總是悲慘的。何況所謂寶二奶奶的寶座她是不是坐上了還是個問題。
如果賈府不倒臺，至少寶釵還有容身之地，至少沒了丈夫還有富貴，但是不是這樣呢?最終賈府淪落到了白茫茫大地真乾淨的地步，那寶二奶奶的頭銜之於寶釵還有何等意義呢?沒有幸福的生活，沒有丈夫的關愛，寂寞的獨自生，獨自死，難道不是更大的悲劇嗎?
我一直疑心寶玉並不是因為黛玉而離開賈府的，否則他不會娶寶釵。他最終的出世是因為他的世界發生了驚天動地的變化，他的象牙塔坍塌了，他終於明白他的鬥爭，他的思想其實全部是依附著家庭，他的.家倒了，他的一切也完了，什麼思想啊，鬥爭啊，統統沒了，他不得不離家出走，也許是為了避禍。
可以試想一下，你能想象黛玉洗手下廚做羹湯的場景嗎?穿著破衣爛裙，甚至是要依靠襲人的救濟，然後她當然無法再刻薄人，說閒話，只能獨自垂淚，不關愛情，而是生活。當生活給寶黛的愛情畫上巨大的問號時，黛玉能一如既往的愛著寶玉嗎?我想不會，恐怕是要大水狂淹龍王廟的。然後寶玉最終受不了家庭的壓力，還是一走了之，這是很有可能的，他沒有照顧好寶釵，負擔不起生活，同樣對於黛玉，他也不過如此。
另一種可能，萬一賈府能重整旗鼓，蘭桂齊芳，黛玉和寶玉依舊過著他們幸福的日子，多少年以後，寶玉也許會突然發現黛玉皺紋滿面，然後會發現身邊的襲人竟如同當年的趙姨娘，然後愛情就在歲月中流逝，然後寶玉會回憶那個珠圓玉潤的寶姐姐。
其實愛情就是很短暫的，至少這橫刀截斷的愛情給了我們很多美好的幻想和期待，就象傑克之於羅絲，他是她生命中最美的回憶，卻不是唯一。
" A dream of Red Mansions".
I always think of a dream of Red Mansions greatneis that it reflects a decline trend, whether it is family, love, career, are declining, the hi-poly don't like powder, like the happy ending of Chinese classical novel does not see more.
I have to thank continued Gao E, although in many ways he could not follow Cao Xueqin's thought, but at least he let her die, her immortality or at least she died, don't treasure jade, very good very good.
Not that I was cruel like to watch other people 's tragedy, however, not saying? Well, Yan Zhi Fei Fu? For her such a fragile feudal girls, die, is her relief, is all of her tragic end, is her happiness. When she was in the subterranean quiet sleep, he still looked in Firestone to find a way out, have to say, she is happy.
Perhaps two men are romantic, romantic people born should not be met, because life is not a romantic, romantic life will kill to clean out completely, eventually, red rose into the mosquito blood, white rose into the chest with white rice. So, let the romance in the most beautiful time ends, in each other's hearts, leaving the happy memories.
But maybe you would say, but die very sad, a little romance, in this regard, I am not in favor of Gao E's sequels, perhaps Cao Xueqin's original intention for this, maybe she should really tears card to the front, so is not better? She worried about him, with all her passion for this a bosom friend cry, with deep thoughts, such a dead, why is not divine, but Gao E didn't do it, he finally let her very vulgar Thai resentment, then died. It's not like we know that haughty shoegaze Daiyu, rather like a jilted general woman.
Despite this, she is ultimately collapsed in the novel before leaving this is a place, otherwise I can't stand her vulnerability, so big stimulus. He is a rich men's sons, he is not a man of indomitable spirit, he can give her is actually few, leprotection and comfort, he is still need someone to protect the weak, so at his side, she is not happy.
So can take memory away from him, is a kind of happiness. He himself can give Daiyu is a few kind words, he who does not talk to go up, have a look at her, have to say she is happy, of course, someone says she need only treasure two grandma's throne, she doesn't care about him, is that so? Don't have an innate love lonely woman what, anyway, lonely alone is always sad. Besides the so-called treasure two grandmother she sat on the throne is still a problem is it right?.
If they don't fall, at least she still in place, at least no husband and wealth, but is it right? That? They eventually reduced to white earth is really clean degree, the Po two titles to her grandma has what meaning? No happy life, without her husband's love, lonely alone students, die alone, not greater tragedy?
I always suspected he was not because of her and leave the Jias, otherwise he won't marry her. He eventually was born because of his world had shaking heaven and earth changes, his ivory tower collapsed, he realized that his struggle, his thought actually is all dependent on the family, his family fell, his all finished, what idea ah, ah you struggle, no, he had to run away from home, perhaps to avoid.
Can imagine, you can imagine her hands to cook soup scenes? In tattered clothes skirt, even is to rely on to her relief, then of course she can no longer be engraved Bo Ren, gossip, weeping alone, don't shut love, but life. When life gives the love draw big question mark, as in the past love with Baoyu Daiyu can? I don't think so, I am afraid to flood submergence of Temple of the Dragon King of the wild. Then he finally can not stand the family pressure, or run away, it is possible, he did not take good care of her, can't afford to live, but also for her, he is just so so.
Another possibility, if they can rally, children and grandchildren get official rank, and Baoyu Daiyu still live their happy days, many years later, he might suddenly found her wrinkles, and then you'll find out side Xiren was like those of Zhao, then love is in the years passed, then he will recall that the excellent singing or polished writing baby sister.
In fact, love is very short, at least this horizontal truncation love gave us a lot of wonderful imagination and expectation, as Jack to Ross, he is her life the most beautiful recollection, but not the only one.
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